become What Women Want

What do men think women want? Let's face it. The absolute majority of men think that women want a man who gives them everything they want. Giving them compliments -- telling them how beautiful they are, how nice their clothes are, according with all their opinions (and sometimes changing theirs just to agree...please Do Not do this), and even buying them flowers. These behaviors are pretty much unacceptable when it comes to dealing with women.

Learning how to deal with women shouldn't be a mystery for men. In fact, men need to know how to speak to women. From finding a new woman, to attracting her, and then either dating her or taking her home --depending on your goals---handling women is a science. It is not some talent that you're born with, it's a skill that can be learned. Many of the dating gurus have dedicated years to figuring out how women tick. They have made flourishing pickups and analyzed them in every detail. In effect, they backwards engineered the process to uncover the basic elements: all the way from square 1 to home plate.

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So then, there is hope. Hope for anyone - it positively does not matter who you are, what you look like, how tall you are, your race. Please do yourself a favor and get these notions out of your head, forever. Guess what? I'm going to share with you one of the best quotes I've ever heard when it comes to figuring out What Women Want. It came from Gene Simmons, a rockstar who has slept with more than 4,500 women! He says, "Men want sex, and success. Women want everything." And the funny thing is, this is 100% true!

When polled, women say they want a guy who can get along with their parents, is liked by her friends, is good in bed, is 'strong', a good dresser, a good listener, decisive, a good kisser, clean shaven, not clean shaven, is loyal, honest, confident, a good storyteller, funny, The List Goes On.

Don't confuse yourself by remembering these traits. They tell one thing - the one thing women want - A Man. You need to become a man. The one who all the time wears the pants. It's your reality. You need to have direction, purpose. all the time Know Whats Next. When you go out on a date, all the time know what will happen after. If you watch a movie together, know where to go next. Going out for dinner? Order her food. Order her drinks. Don'T Ask, Tell. All of this is subtle, mind you. You aren't being domineering. You are just important gently. Yeah, I like the way that sounds.

You are important Gently. Take a look at James Bond. His body language (very few movements, slow, smooth, positive smirk, knows what happening now and soonafter). That's the place you need to be advent from. And don't get overwhelmed, it's positively easy. Just start doing it small by little. And relax. No big deal man. Do Not Worry, Ever. If you are smart, and have everything planned out, you have nothing to worry about and can be wholly relaxed. everything step by step; planned out.

How do you know what plans to make? That's for you to decide. Just take a simple date, make it fun. If you are planning on kissing her, Do Not wait until you get home (aka, good night kiss). Kiss Her when you are out. Sit next to her at the restaurant (from the start or wait until dessert - all the time get some kind of dessert and feed it to her).

Essentially you are fulfilling her fantasy. She wants to be swept off her feet, and with you being in control, you don't even perceive that you are doing it---isn't that great? It's all happening without known effort. positive things need to happen to take her from square one to the end, are you will be doing them. You will become a good you. The best you. That's positively what it's all about.

Think of it as your first time going to the gym. Let's say you made a New Years resolution to get fit. You're gonna be sore at first. You may not even know what to do. So you do a small of everything, whatever. What matters is that you are doing Something. That's the key. anyone except for nothing is Perfect. So now you just keep going back to the gym and gradually compose a routine. The habit starts becoming, well, routine. Second nature. You don't have to think about what to do every time anymore. It just happens. Just going through the motions. I mean, shit. This is like everything in life. Learning a new language, instrument, job, you name it. It positively is.

The thing that trips up most guys is that they think if they go to the gym once, or twice, they'll come out ripped. Are you nuts?? This is the worst mindset you could ever create. What if you would have given up after the first workout? Second? Probably one of the best life lessons here: persistence and consistence is the consequent of committing to a decision. Go all the way. You are jumping right into the trenches and staying there until you are wholly comfortable. After persistent and consistent Effort, you won't consideration the variation in the middle of being in the trenches and out. Trust me-- great feeling. And I know you've had it sometime in your experience. Just make it happen again. Do anyone it takes. Laser beam focus, gentlemen.

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become What Women Want