Friday, May 4, 2012

A Boots and Black Tie Wedding

If you are a Texan, you probably know just what I mean by a boots and black tie wedding. It can be interpreted quite literally, or taken as inspiration for a determined attitude for your event. For those brides not in the know, here is a primer to hosting a wedding that is the epitome of casual elegance.

The literal meaning of a boots and black tie wedding or event is that the gentlemen wear black tie attire, but instead of the customary shoes, they wear a great pair of cowboy boots (your dressy black cowboy boots, please, not the scuffed up ones that you wear working on the ranch!). At this type of party, the ladies will also wear very elegant attire, most often long dresses, but they are also free to add some character to their outfits, as well. Western inspired details are the most common choice, and some of the ladies may also conclude to wear a very fancy pair of boots as well under a long full skirt.

Food And Dessert

The spirit of a boots and black tie wedding is one of relaxed elegance. In other words, it is black tie, which is formal, and yet, festive, fun, and above all, never stuffy. The bride can wear any gown that strikes her fancy, although with the men in black tie, it needs to be fairly dressy. An all-over lace gown can be the exquisite answer, and if the skirt is full enough, the bride can even wear her own pair of boots under it (this is cute under a full skirt, because the boots will only peek out once in a while). To bring the look back down to earth, unique handcrafted bridal jewelry is great, as is a loose hairstyle. Whether choose a hairdo that allows soft waves to cascade over the shoulders, or a soft and modern updo, accented by a easy piece of handcrafted bridal hair jewelry, rather than a princess style tiara.

Your décor should also embody a feeling of casual elegance. Pair gracious wedding flowers like garden roses with natural branches and twigs to create centerpieces that are dramatic and yet a bit earthy. Tons of white candles in tall holders will add to the ambiance.

Part of the spirit of relaxed elegance will be achieved by the music at the wedding. You undoubtedly want a great band for dancing to surely get the good times rolling. If you are a true daughter of Texas, you might go with a hot country band. Brides who are not country music fans could reconsider someone else style of music with a folksy edge that will get the toes tapping, such as zydeco or Irish folk music. What to avoid? whatever too stuffy like classical music.

food is all the time a big part of the festivities at a wedding. At a boots and black tie reception, serve up a menu of crowd pleasing flavors like barbeque, but done with an elegant twist. It will take the right caterer to come up with recipes that are both homey and upscale, but it can undoubtedly be done, and your guests will find the change from the acceptable baked chicken reception to be a welcome one. You can think about incorporating your theme into your wedding cake. choose a whimsical cake topper to perch atop your dessert, such as a minute bride and groom dressed in formal attire with cowboy boots (this is the type of thing that you can convention order from a website like etsy).

A boots and black tie wedding is a fun twist on the customary formal black tie wedding. It is one of the rare occasions in life where you can have your cake and eat it, too; an elegant and beloved wedding that is also festive and fun. Whether you are a native son or daughter of the Lone Star State, or are just finding for inspiration for a great wedding theme, a boots and black tie wedding might be just what you have been finding for.

A Boots and Black Tie Wedding

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